"You are the creator of your own reality, and so you are not in
jeopardy. You do not need to control the behavior of others in order for
you to thrive. Your attention to things that you think they do that
keeps you from your thriving is, in fact, what keeps you from your
thriving... It is not what they do to you; it's what you do to you in
fear of what you think that they will do to you".